SoulMate and Destiny.
It is your divine destiny to unite with your soulmate and fulfill your lives through a bond of love and friendship. “A true soul mate is probably the most important person you’ll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake,” author Elizabeth Gilbert said. “But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave.”
There is one special and perfect person for each one of us. If you feel so, how come you date others? If you’re waiting for Destiny to happen then why are you dating people? Why don’t you just wait for that special one to come along when he/she want to. Honestly, we all are waiting for that one person since a long time. And those who’ve found their special one are making sure it works out.
Lets be serious here. We all like taking chances. We all love playing stupid and making mistakes. The reason that particular person being the wrong one isn’t the problem. The problem is when you decide to be with them and take chances that you can change them.
Someone asked me once, “Why do you love him? Whats so special about him? Why can’t you just let him go?” I said, “When you think you’ve found the right guy/girl, everything about them becomes good. Be it their annoying laugh, their judgement problems, their idiotic logic about things, be it whatever.”
But that isn’t the hardest part about the relationship. After dating someone for years and then realizing it wasn’t meant to be is the hardest part. It all turns into a big fat mistake. But the important thing is what you learn from those mistakes. And if you keep doing them, you might want to see a doctor.
Things to learn from Mistakes.
Life has so many uncertainties and variables that mistakes are
inevitable. Fortunately, there are many things you can learn from making mistakes.
1. You learn to not do the same mistake again.
2. Teach us about other people.
3. Give us a new perspective on things.
4. Serves as a warning.
5. Reveal where our passion is and where it is not.
6. Point us in a more creative direction.
7. Show us when we are not listening.
8. Helps to keep in mind that trial and error is an organic natural way of living.
9. Expose our true feelings.
10. Bring out problems in a relationship.
The secret to handling mistakes is to:
-Expect them as part of the process of growth and development.
-Have an experimental mindset.
-Think in evolutional rather than fixed terms.
Mistakes are part of the trial and error, experimental nature of life. The more you adopt the experimental, evolutional frame, the easier it becomes to handle mistakes.
Handling mistakes well can help you relax and enjoy all aspects of life more.
So make mistakes, but also make sure you learn something from them and making mistakes always isn’t a good habit. Listen to what people have to say about your mistake, take that into consideration and plan accordingly. Think about what you are doing and what you actually want to do. Don’t just listen to yourself always. Think about how you are affecting other’s lives.
Think about it. But calm down, take a deep breath. Better days are just around the corner 🙂